Tuesday, December 29, 2009

I Learned a Few Things Today

Every day business owner's face potential clients who try to de-value their work.  These potential clients, while often well-meaning, haggle for a deal, and ask for products or services for free, or at a reduced rate, that most business owner's used as method's for becoming successful.   

As a Wedding Planner I run into this issue all the time, as do Photographers, Florists, Videographers, DJ's and Caterers.  These potential clients are understandably trying to save some money while planning an event in their lives that does often cost, at least here in San Diego, upwards of $25,000 on average.  I believe that many of us do our best to satisfy our customer's and try, to some extent, to compromise our prices, cut corner's and bend over backwards all in the name of pleasing these clients.  But I have to wonder... what service are we doing ourselves by allowing people to de-value our work?  I'm guessing very little.  I think this video says it all! 

Just to keep a light spin on it all, though, I heard something that made me laugh today:
"If your clients aren't complaining about your prices, you aren't charging enough".

Monday, December 28, 2009

My New Years Resolution

This year I'm making one simple resolution: put all planned events, no matter how small, into my BlackBerry calendar so that I'm more productive each day.  I've started early.  I've made a a recurring appointment to plan the weeks menu each Sunday evening and to purchase ingredients for said menu each Monday afternoon.  I have made weekly appointments to write a blog for my Wedding Planning company, Weddings Made Splendid (three times a week - a fairly lofty goal).  I've even made appointments to go running every Monday, Wednesday and Friday so that I stop booking coffee dates during my exercise plans.  So far, I'm finding success, except for running this morning - instead I went to the Chiropractor so that it doesn't hurt when I do run.

Anyway, nothing funny, or amazing, or sad in this blog.  Just had to share my New Years Resolution achievements... before I even reach the New Year.  Wish me luck on continuing on the right track...

Monday, December 14, 2009

You May Live in Canada...

Most American's I meet these days ask me "Are you Canadian"?  Apparently even after 3 years here my accent isn't quite gone (though I'm told my husband's is stronger than mine and he's been here 8 years!).  So, I thought it would be fun to post these "You may live in Canada" shorts.  They made me laugh.  Enjoy!

If your local Dairy Queen is closed from September through May...
You may live in Canada.

If someone in a Home Depot store offers you assistance and they don't work there...
You may live in Canada.

If you've worn shorts and a parka at the same time...
You may live in Canada.

If you've had a lengthy telephone conversation with someone who dialed a wrong number...
You may live in Canada.

If 'Vacation' means going anywhere south of Detroit for the weekend...
You may live in Canada.

If you measure distance in hours...
You may live in Canada.

If you know several people who have hit a deer more than once...
You may live in Canada.

If you have switched from 'heat' to 'A/C' in the same day and back again...
You may live in Canada.

If you can drive 90 km/hr (that's 56 mph) through 2 feet of snow during a raging blizzard without flinching...
You may live in Canada.

If you install security lights on your house and garage but leave both unlocked...
You may live in Canada.

If you carry jumper cables in your car and your wife knows how to use them...
You may live in Canada.

If you design your kid's Halloween costume to fit over a snowsuit...
You may live in Canada.

If the speed limit on the highway is 80 km (50 mph) -- you're going 95 (60 mph) and everybody is passing you...
You may live in Canada.

If driving is better in the winter because the potholes are filled with snow...
You may live in Canada.

If you know all 4 seasons as: Almost Winter, Winter, Still Winter, and Road Construction...
You may live in Canada.

If you have more miles on your snow blower than your car...
You may live in Canada.

If you find -2C (29F) degrees 'a little chilly'...
You may live in Canada.

Wednesday, December 9, 2009

Robyn and Kevin's Visit

It's been a busy  month here in the Schmaltz house.  For a week in mid-November my girlfriend Heidi, her husband Brett, and their one year old son, Adam, came for a visit.  Their visit went by very quickly and unfortunately no one took any pictures...

However, just four short days later my girlfriend Robyn and her husband Kevin came to visit us for a week over the Thanksgiving Holiday.  However, I wasn't quite done my wedding season.  As soon as the two of them landed in San Diego, Kevin for the first time, I whisked them off to a brief lunch followed by a wedding rehearsal. 

On Thanksgiving morning I ran the Father Joe's annual Thanksgiving 5K run/walk to raise money for meals for San Diego's hungry.  I raised around $250 and got some exercise... so important on one of the biggest "foodie" days of the year.  Alan cooked a wonderful dinner and we were good American's - we ate ourselves silly!

On Friday Robyn and I worked a wonderful wedding at Balboa Park while the boys went golfing and the dog went to the Spa.  We avoided the malls as if they had the plague... no sense in taking part in the madness that is Black Friday.  However, we weren't able to hold out long.  Saturday we partook in the amazing post-Thanksgiving sales up at the outlet mall in Carlsbad.  Thank you, Michael Kors, for such beautiful bags.  I hope you enjoy your holidays.

On Sunday we found ourselves paragliding... well... some of us.  I'll pause here and let you take in the pictures from our adventures. 



So, the wind was not very strong on Sunday.  Alan, Robyn and I did manage to get up in the air for a paragliding trip over the cliffs of Torrey Pines golf course and Black's Beach, the NUDE beach here in San Diego.  From the air I didn't see any of my non-clad Californian's.  However, through a funny twist of fate, the winds died before I was even half way through my ride - my pilot and I had to land on the beach.  It is there that I witnessed my first nude jogger.  Yes... jogging... naked... I know, you're dsiappointed... I have no pictures of this!

Unfortunately, the winds just weren't strong enough for a fourth flight so Kevin wasn't able to get up in the air.  When he comes back in May for his birthday I think the first thing we'll do is head to the Gliderport for his flight.

Monday... I don't remember much.  Sad, isn't it?  Oh yes, we had breakfast with some friends from my BNI chapter, went for a quick blood test (me, not Robyn), did some quick shopping at Dressbarn and Marshall's and then tried again to go for a Paragliding trip.  The winds, again, weren't stable enough for flight so I sent Robyn and Kevin for an adventure down in La Jolla.  From the pictures I'm sure you can tell that they had a good time.

Tuesday we spent the day at Sea World - always my favorite place.  Next time they come we'll do an Animal Encounter but this trip Robyn found a new love: the Bat Ray's.  I've only shown you 3 of about 45 photos of her with the animals.  I will admit, I love them too.  Kevin is just a very avid photographer!

Wednesday, unfortunately, brought their departure.  However, we've heard multiple promises of their imminent return for more food, shopping and fun.  Thanks guys!  It was a great visit; can't wait to see you both again.

Wednesday, December 2, 2009

My Dog and her Vocabulary

All parents believe their children are smart, whether they're an A+ kid or need Kumon to get through their schooling.  Even those of us who are parents to the four legged children of the world believe our child is the best, brightest and most beautiful of the lot!  So today I am here to show you that not only is my dog smart, she's got a sense of humor.  I like to think she got it from me but I'll let you be the judge of that.
 
We adopted Peaches in September of 2008 from the SPCA.  We have taught her "Go get your _______".  You can fill in any one of the names below and she will retrieve any of these items.  The last one is open to your interpretation but rest assured she named this one... it's a new development!  Enjoy!


"Toy"


"Pheasant"


"Ball"
(Arguably her favorite when it's not lodged under the couch juuuuuuust
out of reach of Mum and Dad's hands!)


"Kevin".

Dogs are weird.